There are so many things that I would like to share with you from my heart. First, enjoy the life you live. Life is too short to be consumed with complaining about what you want instead of being grateful that your needs are met. Stop complaining and start living. There is so much more life for you to live, but you are consumed by following the dreams that others have placed before you. I pray that you will follow God’s plan for your life, even if it’s uncomfortable. I pray that you would listen to the things that God tells you to pursue and accomplish. I know you thought he was part of the plan, but what if he served his purpose in your life? Did you learn the lesson? Have you healed before moving into the next relationship? Do you know your worth? Do the opinions of others matter over the plan God has for your life? What if the relationship was the teachable moment?   

Secondly, you are amazing! Go after your dreams and fulfill your destiny. Don’t allow others to make you become stagnant in the journey and kill your dreams. Girl, you are amazing despite all that you have been through. Your story is simply amazing and unique. God has given you beauty for ashes. HE has given you the grace to move forward. You are beautiful! You are more than enough! You are who God says that you are! Girl dry your eyes and keep pressing! There is so much more life for you to live. There are so many doors waiting for you to walk through. There is some lady that needs to hear your story. Don’t allow life’s mistakes and detours keep you bitter. So, what, they talked about you. So, what, they said you wouldn’t make it. So, what, if they don’t like you. You are doing what they want to do, and they are too afraid to step out. Girl, if you would only believe in yourself. Look in the mirror and decree and declare that your best days are ahead of you. There is so much life to live and so many goals to accomplish. Girl be simply UNSTOPPABLE!

​What has you fearful? What should you be doing? What have you delayed because of fear? Many times, we are afraid and make excuses for being disobedient to God’s will for our life. When will you speak to your fear(s)? When will you cast fear aside and step out on faith? So today, I encourage you to stop and acknowledge that you are fearful.
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Hello Fear.. you have kept me in this place too long; you have kept me complacent for too long; you have kept anxiety in my heart for too long and you have halted my destiny for too long. Fear will keep you bound; fear will paralyze you; fear will prevent you from launching; fear will keep you from moving forward; fear will stunt your growth and fear will keep you from stepping out. God told us to fear not. If the Bible tells us not to be fearful, then why are we so fearful? Fear has caused the writer in me to be afraid to share my heart and what God was speaking to me. So, today I cast fear aside and decided to launch out. Just as I did today, I encourage you today to deep breath and take the first step.

I know that you keep having the conversation with yourself about the things you want to accomplish in life. I know you want to do God’s will for your life, but you allow fear to stop you. What happened if you stepped out and fulfilled what God has called you to do? The Bible tells us to fear not…Why? Because HE is God, HE will strengthen you; HE will help you and HE will uphold. HE is waiting for you to take the first step. Believe me, I know stepping out is not easy and uncomfortable. If it was easy, then everyone would be taking the first step. It’s okay to step out into the unfamiliar because God is with you and HE promised to never leave you nor forsake you.

Don’t allow fear to keep you bound; don’t allow fear to prevent you from launching; don’t allow fear to keep you from moving forward; don’t allow fear to stunt your growth and don’t allow fear to keep you from stepping out. God has equipped you with everything you need for the next move. Fear is a distraction on life’s journey. Distractions are designed to steer us off the journey. The next time fear wants to creep in, remember that “fear with hinder you, but faith will propel you!”