Happy Monday! You, yes “YOU” are worthy to be loved! I know the relationship broke your heart and you said that you would never love again. I know that you believe you are not worthy of being loved. I know that during your childhood, you wondered if anyone really truly loved you. Your heart has been broken so many times you cannot keep count! I know what heartbreak feels like, but I do believe that there is hope. Even after heartbreak, God is still able to mend your heart and heal your wounds. In spite of your past hurt and pain, know that most of all God loves you! Yes, you are worthy to be loved and yes you will open up your heart to love again. Yes, you will be someone’s greatest blessing! I pray that you will always know that you are worthy to be loved and so much more!

I pray that your day is amazing as you are! Lady T

Watch Your Tone!
Do you respond harshly? Do you always need to have the final word? Did you try to respond in love? So many times, we feel the way we respond is justified. We never consider our words or how our words taste or feel before they leave our mouth. We allow anger to take control of our emotions.  Also, we respond in anger and make statements that we cannot take back.

Will you be conscious of your response? Will you realize that two wrongs do not make it right? When will you realize your response and anger offends others, will you apologize for your words and actions? It’s time to look in the mirror. Don’t allow the actions of others and yourself affect your tone, words and integrity! The world makes us believe it’s okay to get it off our chest or tell it like it is. You don’t have to be distasteful, dishonoring and degrading to convey your message. Don’t wound people with your words! Words do hurt! Consider the taste of your words before they leave your mouth!

Have an amazing day and always remember that you are loved! Lady T

Hold On Mama...
I know this season of life has been hectic. I know there are days you feel like you cannot keep up. There are days when you feel like crying because you are overwhelmed. For new mamas, you are tired and sleepy most days. Your days and nights are confused. You do not know if you are coming or going. For toddler mamas, you thought this season would be easy. However, it has proven to be a challenge. The kids just will not listen. You are too embarrassed to go in public for fear of being judged by another mama. For mamas with school aged kids, we had to decide whether to allow our kids to learn virtually or send them back to the classroom. It is your decision, don’t allow others make you feel like a horrible mama because of your decision. It is your household and not their household. For mamas with college freshman, you had to drop your kids off at the dormitory and deal with the house being quiet. You pray that as they enter adult life, they would remember the important life lessons you instilled in them.

You are struggling with juggling it all. Most days you wake up tired and crawl into bed at night tired. You are the first one up in the morning and the last one to go to bed. You try to make sure your husband is taken care of; the kids are taken care of and the household is presentable and clean. You feel like you are failing yourself and everyone around you. If you receive one more phone call, you do not know what you are going to do. It seems like when you sit down to relax and breathe, someone else is calling your name or asking you to do something.

Mama, hold on and don’t give up! It’s only a season! There are seasons where we are smiling, riding the waves and life is good. Then, there are seasons where is there is more crying than happiness. Mama, I know that it is all overwhelming. Mama, I know you are wondering when will this season end. Mama, I know what it feels like when you feel like you are failing as a mother. Mama, I know that you take care of everybody and everything. Mama, I know you have placed yourself last. Today, I pray that you would hold on because this is just a season. Seasons do not stay the same forever. Seasons do change! I pray that you would breathe and realize that you are only one person. I pray that you would not be ashamed to ask for help. I pray that you would take care of yourself like you take care of others. I pray that you would realize and know that you are a great and awesome MAMA. Your family believes it and you should too. You will get through this season! Be encouraged and always remember that you are one amazing mama!
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Have an amazing day and always remember that you are loved! Lady T

​Happy Monday! This is your friendly reminder that you are more than enough! You are more than enough to fulfill your dreams. You are more than enough to believe in “YOU.” Don’t settle in any area of your life. You have everything you need to complete the work God has called you to do! Don’t doubt the conqueror within! Look in the mirror and declare, “I am more than enough!”
 
I pray that your week is as amazing as you are! Lady T

The Titus 2 Woman
Will you be the woman who encourages other women, especially younger women? Will you speak to them in love? Will you lead and direct those whom need direction? Will you speak as a concerned mother would speak to her daughter?

I encourage you to be a mentor and speak life to  women that you know and come in contact with. The world has enough to say about us as women. We often deal with having to prove ourselves to others. Titus 2 woman, we need your love, your guidance, your listening ear and your direction. We need to hear your story. We need to know that God brought you out. We need to know that you care, you will listen and you will understand. It is easy for us to judge one another based on looks or the opinions of others. Most of us need a hand to hold, a shoulder to cry on, you to open your heart or just simply be present. Today, I encourage you to be the Titus 2 woman that the world needs. 

Have an amazing day and always remember that you are loved! Lady T

A confident woman walks boldly in the room. She is not arrogant, but she knows what she brings to the table. A confident woman knows her worth. She will not settle for mediocrity, because she is destined for greatness. She is thankful for her past and excited about her future. She is not concerned what others will say about her or her future. She still believes that she has purpose to fulfill. She knows that it was God who brought her this far. She does not seek validation from people, places, or things. She realizes that God has been faithful to her. She realized that she is blessed. She knows her story and owns her story. She recognizes that she does need a big circle of friends to fit in. She is grateful for God’s hand of protection on her life.
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Yes, she has been rejected, abandoned, heartbroken and so much more. However, she does not allow life’s detours to keep her from pursuing greatness. She knows that she does not have to compete with the next woman. She knows that life will happen and when it happens, she will continue to press forward. She is a woman of character and integrity in every part of her life. She laughs at the future without fear. Her children arise and called her blessed. Are you this confident woman? Can you show up for life when it is time? Can you be the woman that God purposed for you to be without any hesitation or regrets? Being confident is knowing who you are and whose you are. Being confident is be comfortable in the skin you are in. Being confident comes from within. My sister and friend, I pray that you will be the confident woman that you are designed to be.
Have an amazing day and always remember that you are loved! Lady T

Happy Monday! Look in the mirror today and declare that you are absolutely beautiful! Your beauty should not be compared to the next woman. Be confident in your beauty and how God created you! I pray that you would open your eyes and see your beauty within. 

Have an amazing day and always remember that you are loved. Lady T

I am so proud of the woman that you have become. You have grown so much. You are absolutely beautiful, smart, resilient, kind, caring, and so much more. Growing up you wondered what life would look like for you. Everyone always had something to say, but most times you remained quiet. You wondered if what you had to say would really impact others. You wondered who would want to hear from a woman like you. You never asked for a platform. Your outlook was if I can impact one person’s life, then you know you made a difference. You never thought you would share openly with others what God was speaking to you privately. You never thought you would continue to encourage the hearts of people, especially women. The words written were never for likes, but to encourage your heart and the hearts of others. You never knew God would trust you with a pen and paper. You often wondered and struggled with your place in life and the world. You often encouraged and cheered on so many to fulfill their dreams and destiny, all while diligently writing about your struggle and the struggles of women around you. Yes, you were the quiet and shy girl who never wanted to be seen or heard. You wondered if what you had to share was even worth it.

Then, the pandemic appeared, and you wondered what the Lord was showing you to do. You had many sleepless nights. You had many doubts. You had many questions and you had many fears. However, you must trust what you told me to do. Even if you have to do it nervous, you will step out because it is for God’s glory. Your faith step is “Life Lessons with Lady T Blog.” You realized that you have been your own greatest hindrance all along. Even in this post, you want to encourage yourself and others to pursue your dreams. Simply do what God has called you to do. Faith without works is dead. We have grown accustomed to encouraging others, all while walking out our dreams in fear. It is never too late to step out.... 

This is the greatest birthday present that I could have given to myself! Happy Birthday to me!
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Have an amazing day and always remember that you are loved! Lady T