Life Lesson ~ I Know....

I Know......

Dear Sister,
I know that life has not always been fair. I know that you have been judged when you walked into the room. I know that they have whispered about your current situation. I know that as women it’s easier to judge the next woman instead of conversing with her. I know that life knocked you to your knees. I know that the next woman dreams of what you have, but she doesn’t know what you have endured. She doesn’t know the nights you have cried yourself to sleep. She doesn’t know what you gave up to be where you are. She doesn’t know how many dreams were deferred for you to be where you are today. She doesn’t know that you have not always had what you have. She doesn’t know that you are willing to be a blessing to others, but life has made you guarded. She wants to share, but it’s the fear of opening up and sharing, then who will you tell. If she told you her struggles and deepest secret, will you be able to handle it? She wonders does anyone see her tears and knows her heart. My sister and friend, be encouraged. Life has not always been fair to us, but we must look to the hills from where our help comes from. I know it’s not easy to tell your story for fear of being judged and criticized. But what you don’t know is the lady that is judging you has been through or is currently going through more than you will ever know. It’s easier to pick out someone else flaws and not look at our own flaws. I know what it feels like to wonder why you are treated differently. I know what it feels like to live life through flaws and insecurities. The beauty of it all is that God will give you beauty for ashes. God loves you in spite of your flaws and insecurities. What matters most is that HE thinks that you are beautiful, in spite of what the world tells you! #youareenough #youarebeautiful

​Have an amazing day and always remember that you are loved! Lady T